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We are entering an era where it is becoming socially unacceptable not to be
vaccinated against the COVID-19 virus.
This trend has already manifested itself in the Los Angeles BDSM party scene where events have begun
to require a vaccination card. Before
giving in to such social pressures consider the information presented in the videos about that which
are linked to in the
Physician's
Clinic webpage. It can take as long as 14 months before the vaccination consequences of
auto-immune disease, stroke,
nerve damage, and death, become readily apparant. Im many cases these hushed up consequences happen
immediately. These vaccines are
projected to eventually kill 50 million peoople. Do you want to risk being one of them?
- Anvil Club in Los Angeles
- Male only. Club membership required. 21+
- One party every two months as listed on the
website.
- Advanced tickets required and are available online only. No tickets sold at the door. $30
- AVALifestyles in Lancaster
- Their monthly socials and many alternative lifestyle functions as announced on their
Yahoo Group and email list.
- A Kinky Affair for the Discerning Deviant at The Decameron in West Hollywood
- 8:00 PM to 11:55 PM on the Saturdays they are held.
- The inaguaral party is on Oct 10, 2015. How ofthen these will be is unknown by me a this time.
21+
- $30 Single Female, $60 Single Male, $75 couple.
- Avatar
- Holds one party a year, on dates announced. Primarily gay male. Parties are open to all. 21+
- Bastille
- Holds Friday night "Eat & Beat" 8:00 PM to 2:00 AM, and Sunday afternoon "BBQ Whippings" 1:00 PM
to 7:00 PM on days that are announced on their
Yahoo group. 18+
- The location of this dungeon in Long Beach is given to those who join the
Yahoo group and RSVP for an event.
- $20 per person
- BDSM West
- Due to the
closure of the Palatial
Mansion where this group used to have their parties these parties are on hold. I expect
them to resume when they find another place to have them.
- Club Indulgence
- The last Saturday of the month at Sanctuary Studios LAX in Lennox.
map
- $20 per person.
- Prior attendees of
Gentlemen in Charge or
WICK get an emailed invitation to attend for $15. A hard copy of the
invitation must be presented at the door to get in for this amount.
- Those who also attend the
LANextGen workshop that takes just prior to this party get both events
for $20
- Club Indulgence events are announced on the
Sanctuary Studios LAX events page.
- There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount of
it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- Club
WICK (Women In Charge of Kink)
- Holds FemDom/malesub only parties every first Saturday at the
Bordello of
Decadence (BOD) in Rosemead
map.
- 8:00 PM - 1:30 AM
- $40 for male submissives, $20 for female Dominants.
- This is a membership only event, and you must be listed on a guest list to attend. For guest
list consideration contact hostclubwick <at> gmail <dot> com.
- This is a high protocol party. New male slaves are required to attend a half hour protocol
training session just before the dungeon party starts, and follow those protocols during the
party that follows.
-
- Strict Dress Code:
- Ladies: Cocktail attire or Fetish Dressing, NO Jeans or Flip Flops!
- Gentlemen: Again, NO JEANS OR FLIP FLOPS or OLD TENNIS SHOES! Nice black sneakers are
okay, dress slacks, dress shirts, or suits. Must wear a pair of NICE underwear, no
tighty whiteys or boxer shorts....prefer thong underwear. Cross Dressing is okay, but
tastefully please.
- Single men who have no owners wear a red ribbon on their collars to indicate they are
available to be approached by female Dominants for play.
- Den of Iniquity, The
- Website membership is required to attend. Memberships are $21.95 per month plus a $34.95 one
time charge. I do not know how often these are at this time. Comming events are announced on the
Den of Iniquity's Calendar. The next event is
announced on the Den of Iniquity's
Event Bright page.
- There is a lot of smoking done in this dungeon, and so there is a lot of
thirdhand smoke residue in the air
and all surfaces there.
- Dungeon West
- Holds play parties as announced on their
News & Events page.
- Footnight in Garden Grove
- Held on a Thursday 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM. How often these are is unknown by me at this time.
- $65 per person.
- This is a foot worship party.
- Gentlemen in Charge Social at Sanctuary Studios LAX in Lennox 18+ map
- Every fourth Friday 8:30PM to 2:00 AM. No admitance after 11:00PM.
- $30 for Male Dominants, Free for female submissives.
- Male Dominant and female submissive only.
- You must be on the guest list to attend. The email address to attend is given on Gentlemen in
Charge event page at
Sanctuary Studios LAX
- This is both a social and a dungeon party.
- At least two of the
Dungeon Monitors are female.
- 8:30 pm - Doors open.
- 9:00 - 9:30 pm A workshop is presented on a BDSM topic. Most of the time these are separate
workshops for males and females.
- 9:30 - 10 pm - High Protocol Social, during which time subs can serve
their Doms and discuss what they have learned, negotiate scenes, or just
relax. Female members are expected to remain in submissive Fetish wear OR
other submissive outfit for the evening. ALL subs must wear a COLLAR. If
a sub comes without a Dom or a collar, a House Collar will be provided ($5 deposit required
which is retuned upon the return of the collar when leaving).
Round tags, which symbolize availability to negotiate play, are available for
all single subs to wear. Ladies who simply wish to observe or are with
their Dominant, will NOT have these tags on their collars and are off limits
to approach for play.
- NO ADMITTANCE AFTER 11PM unless prior arrangements have been made!! (We
only have someone working the door until 11)
-
- 10:00pm�2:00am - PLAY PARTY........We have UNRESTRICTED play because this
is a private party! Female DM's will be monitoring play to ensure a safe
and comfortable environment for everyone.
- Dominants doing ANY kind of Edge Play should run it by the Host Sir Gabriel
or Sir Zeus, or one of our DMs for the evening (we need to be sure that
newbies are not engaging in things they are not prepared for).
- PLEASE NOTE: Subs are NOT allowed to pick up, carry, or use any toys
unless cleaning or transporting for a Dom.
- Food and drink is provided. It is okay to BYOB and put your name on it
behind the Bar.
- The dress code at this party is unusual in that fetish atire is not allowed in, and this is
strictly enforced. Vanilla formal attire, such as business suits, is required at this party.
Follow the link on the party confirmation they will send upon receiving an RSVP from you for
details.
- There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount of
it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article).
- Iron Gate Studios SFV in Reseda
- Holds themed daytime and evening parties as announced on the website, and
Mistress Lexine's blog.
- Klub33 in Orange County
- A swingers club that regularly holds kink and swinter related events.
- The exact location is given only to those who register for an event.
- Ladies In Charge of Kink (LICK)
- Every First Saturday at
Dragon's Gate Studios in Placentia
- Female Dominant and male submissive or female submissive only.
- $35 for males, $15 for females.
- An RSVP response to an emailed invitation is required to attend.
- The exact location is given only to those who RSVP.
- It is a requirement that all members who want to attend the parties also attend a one time only
Orientation, and a Negotiation Class that is an online live webinar.
- Apply to attend on the
LICK website.
- There is extensive use of ultraviolet lighting at Dragon's Gate (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- Lair De Sade
- Holds parties every first and third Friday and every Saturday 9:00PM until ?. Doors close at
11:00PM 21+
- Arrivals after 11:00 PM can call the Lair de Sade cell phone to get in: 818-255-5507
- $30 for members and their guests. All guests must be accompanied by a member.
- Platinum memberships are $50 a month and include access to all Lair de Sade events at no
additional charge.
- Holds the "Spanking Social" every first Wednesday, 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM, $5 members, $10
nonmembers
- Every Saturday ~ UNFETTERED ~ Pansexual BDSM Party.
- Every First Friday ~ CONQUEST ~ Couples/Triads Only Party w/ Male Top/female bottom scenes only.
- Every Third Friday ~ VENUS ~ Female Top/male or female bottom scenes only.
- Located in North Hollywood.
Map
- Memberships are available at their Insight workshop events. To attend an Insight event you must
either be a guest of a member or have gotten an invitation in advance. To request an invitation:
ccincbdsm@aol.com
- Basic lifetime membership is a one time fee of $40. Parties are $20 for basic members. Other
memberships are available.
- Get on Lair De Sade's email list at the
Yahoo LairDeSade_INSIGHT group.
- At Lair De Sade there is a main outdoor area connecting the main entrance and the three dungeon
areas. This area is a smoking area and cannot be avoided. Expect exposure to
cigarette smoke
- Los Angeles Doms and Subs - LADs
- Holds
Tea Parties and Dungeon Parties on dates that are
announced.
- Female dominants and submissives and slaves of all genders (including males, female and TGs) are
accepted. All switches are accepted, but male switches must be submissive at LADs.
- Mistress Jordan's of Jordan Enterprises Inc. Party at Dragon's Gate Studios 18+
- Once monthly on Saturdays that are announced, 8:00PM to 1:00AM
- $25 per person.
- RSVP required by the day before the party. There is a limit of 75 people.
- The location of the Dragon's Gate Studios in Placentia is given only to those who RSVP.
- To get on the email list:
Jeidom AT aol DOT com
- There is extensive use of ultraviolet lighting at Dragon's Gate (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- Moonburn
- The first Saturday of every month 2:00PM to 6:00PM.
- Men's spanking parties. Gay male only.
- Contact
Chief10611@aol.com for info.
- Sanctuary LAX in Lennox map 18+
- Formerly known as "Passive Arts."
- Holds parties and educational events regularly.
- Sanctuary LAX is the domain of
Mistress Cyan. Announcements are posted on her
Yahoo group and
Sanctuary LAX's website.
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- SoCA Bondage Club in at Sanctuary Studios in Lennox map
- Every 2nd Sunday 7:30 PM to 12:00 AM
- $15 per person at the door (cash only).
- Men only. Primarily gay male.
- To Rsvp:
socabc@gmail.com
- SoCal
Shibari
- This group is primarily in San Diego but has recently begun having events in Temecula to be more
accessible to people from the LA Area. Temecula is half way between the Inland Empire (in the
greater LA area) and San Diego along Freeway 15. This is a small group that has its events in
private homes. Its emphasis is education in japanese rope bondage and has workshops and parties
- Southern
California Leather Woman
- This is an annual contest where the Southern "California Leather Woman" is chosen. It is held
the first weekend of October at locations that are announced on their
website.
- A dungeon party folows this event.
- SubmissionLA
- Holds educational events as announced on the
Parties page.
- Paddlers of Southern California
(PSC)
- Events held in Riverside.
- A workshop and party often follow their
munches every second Saturday.
- Shadow Lane
- This club specializes in very large spanking only parties at major resorts.
- Tickler's Revenge in Orange County (west of
DisneyLand), Long Beach, the Inland Empire, and Ventura County.
- Ticklers Revenge is your one-stop-shop to enjoy BDSM / kink-fetish parties with emphasis on
tickling. TR parties are perfect for singles and couples. Tickle the live action models &/or
they can tickle you! --Bring your kinky tickle toys or S & M arsenal because Ticklers Revenge
parties are "Anything Goes" so long as its individually consensual with the kinky live action
models and guests. Yes means YES!! --So please be courteous & ask if its ok to play how you want
to PLAY!
- Yard LA
- Gay male only.
- In West Los Angeles. The first party is on Nov 22, 2008 9:00PM. How often they will be is unkown
by me at this time.
- $30 online or $40 at the door.
Professional Dungeon Parties
These parties are attended by professional dominants, generally always FemDoms, who are paid to
attend and play with the submissives there. It is assured a submissive who attends will be played
with, which is unlike the nonprofessional parties where people gather, socialize, and possibly find
play partners. But because the Dominants are paid these parties are expensive for the submissive to
attend. The expense is a lower cost than a private professional session would be,- generally about
half for the same amount of time. But the submissives do not have a Dominant's exclusive attention
during that time.
- Decameron, The
- Every other month in Beverly Hills / West Hollywood as announced on their website's Events page.
Click on on the three lines to the upper left to see the menu.
- There are about 8-10 Pro-Dommes who are there and ready to play, and ticket sales are capped at
2 subs for every Mistress in attendance.
- Submit
- Every fourth Wednesday at
Sactuary LAX in Lennox (near LAX)
map
- The Dungeon is the playground for the evening. This is an open party environment with Ladies
joining in on scenes and/or watching your scene. Typically, most single scenes span 20-30
minutes so that everyone has the opportunity to play with others if they like or take a few
minutes to take a break, grab something to eat or drink, and perhaps socialize a little before
starting the next scene.
- Private one-on-one sessions are available at a reduced rate during the party if someoe prefers a
full session.
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
These are fetish themed events at disco nightclubs where SM play is staged and play by
public for both Tops and bottoms is welcomed as well. Because these are public events no nudity is
allowed at any them. The rules on the amount of required coverage varies. If in doubt you should ask
the nightclub's promoters. Generally the rules are about the same as on the beach. Some clubs are
worse than others in regards to sound levels. It is generally wise to have both earplugs and nutrients as counter measures
against damage to hearing due to sound
levels when attending them.
Thefts of equipment at these events happen often. Night Clubs are attended by all
kinds of people, not just people active in the kink community who are generally far more
trustworthy. Anything not kept on your person or closely watched over is at risk and is best kept
out of sight in luggage or locked up.
Because these are nightclubs it is inevitable there will be bottoms that have had a
few alcoholic drinks before play. I have come across bottoms about to have their first BDSM
experience not want to play until they have had a drink or two. Recommendations on my part to have
them afterwards never were accepted by them. I have yet to see this as a problem for Tops
because the vast majority of the Tops that go to these clubs to play are very experienced and know
better. Alcohol and BDSM play do not mix. The bottoming experience is about feeling and enjoying
sensations the Top provides. This is lessened when a bottom is numbed to it by alcohol. There is
also a safety issue because it is important for a bottom to know what is being received. If a bottom
appears to be under the influence by personality, wobbly walking, or breath smell, it is best to
tell them to try it some other evening.
Some of these nightclubs have webpages where free or discount passes are available.
These are easily printed without the rest of the webpage they are in by right clicking the image
that is the pass and selecting the "Print Image" item in the pop up menu. If you are not using the
MS Internet Explorer there may be a "View Image" menu item. In this case select it and the image
will appear alone in a new browser window where it can be printed.
- Eagle LA
- Several events weekly. Primarily gay male.
- Faultline, The near
Melrose and Vermont in Los Angeles
- Has special play events as announced on the
website.
- Primarily Gay Male.
- Hollywood and Bind in
North Hollywood 21+
- See the link to the upper right of the webpage.
- This event is on hiatus until a venue can be found.
- Every first Friday 9:00PM - 2:00AM.
- $20 With fetish wear, $25 creative wear, $40 for formal wear (tuxedos, etc.). Can be paid in
advance on their website or at the door. Admisison fees are the same at the door.
-
Fetish dress code will be strictly
enforced. Definitions of fetish wear for this event:
FETISH-EROTIC & ALTERNATIVE FASHION
Latex, leather, PVC, Vinyl, nylon/spandex, uniforms, vintage & period costumes, lolita,
burlesque, steampunk, zentai, elegant gothic aristocrat (corsets, fishnet, velvet, vampire etc),
medical, chain mail, body armor, kinky drag, cyber, bondage, and other subculture expressions.
NON FETISH (BUT CREATIVE) DISPLAYS OF PERSONAL EXPRESSION
Glam Fabulous, Punk, Rockabilly, Mod, Ero Kawaii, etc.
ULTRA FORMAL ATTIRE
Tuxedos.
ABSOLUTELY NOT PERMITTED
Jeans, street clothes, cotton, white sneakers, t-shirts, etc.
- Spank Karaoki at the Bullet Bar in North Hollywood
- Mondays 9:00 PM - 1:00 AM
- Gay Male Only
A slave auction is an event where the right to dominate and play with a bottom, for the period of
time offered by the bottom, is sold to the highest bidder. Typically this is the duration of the
dungeon party where the auction is held, and it may be shorter than this but it is never longer. The
domination and play remains confined to the premises of the dungeon where the auction is held.
Although these are always called "Slave Auctions" it frequently happens that Tops get on the auction
block as well and it is the bottoms that do the bidding. It can happen that a person who is
generally always a Dominant will switch to being a bottom for the event. It is always an auction
rule that any limits a bottom has as to what is done at play are respected and these are usually
given before the auction. In addition to the slave's limits, the rules of the venue where it is held
will also have limits to keep the event within the law, for safety, and other reasons.
The currency used to bid with varies. Very often these are fund raisers for charities.
Slave auctions are a great way to "break the ice" and
initiate play among people at a party. It makes it apparent who the available submissives are, and
who wants to play with them. It sometimes happens a purchase starts a long term relationship. Of
course there is always risk to the moral of the individual on the auction block if there are no
bids. Most who go on the block are sold. But no bids do happen so the individual on the block must
be prepared with a "thick
skin." On the other hand, it can be an ego boost to watch from the auction block many
competing bidders bidding up to a high price.
- Mistress
Cyan's Slave Auctions 18+
- Held a week or two before Thanksgiving and again a few weeks before Christmas in early December
at
Sanctuary LAX in Lennox (near the Los Angeles Airport)
map.Others may be held at other times in the year
as announced. At the one before Thanksgiving the currency is a voucher the value of which is
determined by food donated to charity. At the one before Christmas it is toys donated to
charity. These exchanges for vouchers are done at the event just before the auction. The
donations can also be made in advance by delivering to the dungeon where the auction is held. You must keep an
inventory of what was delivered in advance to get credit for it at the auction. When Mistress
Cyan makes the deliveries to the charitable organizations she lets them know it came from the
fetish community.
- The value of the voucher is determined by how much has been spent on toys or food. It is best to
bring the receipt for what you have spent. Otherwise it will be an estimation. Vouchers can also be gotten in exchange for cash or
payment by credit card at the auction, before, or after, a winning bid.
- In the year 2009, there was also a slave auction on April 18. Everyone attending chose an
envelope. Each envelope contained a voucher for "auction money" to purchase a slave for the
evening of play. Those who wanted to acquire additional "auction money" were be able to do so at
a rate of 10 auction dollars for every real dollar). Whether this will be a yearly event in
April is unknown by me at this time.
- The slave auctions are announced at her
Yahoo Group and the
Sanctuary LAX Website's Events Page.
- The Thanksgiving Auction has been better attended than Christmas one.
-
Mistress Cyan's 2017 Christmas Slave Auction
Announcement for Friday Dec 8, 8:00 PM.
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
These clubs hold workshops in BDSM play technique.
See also the Educational Book List and Educational Movie List
- Avatar
- Jan - Oct every fourth Wednesday, Nov and Dec, every second Wednesday 8:30 PM to 10:00 PM at
MCC of the Valley in
North Hollywood.
Map 21+
-
- Also hosts the "Leather Lab" workshops usually on the first Saturday. Days and times for leather
lab change often. See their
web site for the latest information. Leather lab is hands
on oriented. There is an emphasis in doing what is being taught rather than passively watching a
demonstration. It is a good idea to bring a partner. But if you haven't you will be paired up
with someone.
- Avatar is primarily gay male. The Leather Labs are open to males only. The Wednesday evening
workshops are open to all.
- The Wednesday workshops are $5 Suggested donation. No one is turned away for lack of funds.
The Leather Labs are $30.
- Bound Los
Angeles in Van Nuys
- First event is March 20th, 2010. How often these will be is unknown by me at this time.
- An afternoon of rope bondage instruction followed by a play party.
- $40, A donation of $10 for the dungeon party requested.
- C M Hurt in Garden Grove
- Once a month on a Friday at 8:00PM for a year begining in January. Participants are expected to
commit to attending all classes for one year. The classes have an emphasis on hands on doing
what is taught. For more information and to enroll contact
Mistress Cynthia.
- $25 per class.
- Catherine Gross
- Holds workshops in many cities in the USA including Los Angeles. Some events last entire
weekends.
- Club WICK
- Holds a one hour training workshop in slave protocols for males just before their monthly
dungeon parties.
See this event in the Dungeon Party section.
- Decameron, The
- Hosts workshops from time to time in their dungeon in Beverly Hills / West Hollywood as
announced on their
News page.
- Den of Iniquity, The
near downtown Los Angeles
- Holds "CONTROLLING MEN THROUGH THE ART OF FEMALE DOMINATION" workshops every Sunday as announced
on
Den of Iniquity's Event Calendar, and email list. To
get on the email list send a request to denofiniquityla <at> gmail <dot> com.
- $40 per single male, $30 per couple, $20 per single female. Single males are often used as the
"crash test dummy" in demonstration.
- These workshops are a repeating series of nine that cycle back the first after the last is held.
They are required training for ProDoms who work at the Den of Iniquity, and that Mistress Tara
Indiana has graciously opened to the public as a public service.
- The exact dungeon location is given by email on the day of the workshop.
- Most events are coed events that men may attend. There are also events where only females are
allowed. Mistress Tara Indiana is a female supremacist. There are some things she does not want
men to know.
- These classes are now in a clean smoke free location which is a location other than the Den of
Iniquity dungeon.
- Insight at Lair De
Sade
- Every first and third Saturday. 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM
- Located in North Hollywood.
Map 21+
- $10 per person.
- Insight events are for members, guests of members, and non members who have received and
invitation. To request an invitation:
ccincbdsm@aol.com.
- Memberships are available at Insight events.
- At Lair De Sade there is a main outdoor area connecting the main entrance and the three dungeon
areas. This area is a smoking area and cannot be avoided. Expect exposure to
cigarette smoke.
- Los Angeles Doms and subs,
L.A.D.s
- Female Dom only. Male switches are welcome but must be in their submissive roles.
- Has a guest speaker every few months.
- Los Angeles Pony and Critter Club
- Presentations, Munches, Play Dates and Events
- LANextGen
- The last Saturday of the month 7:00-9:00PM at
Sanctuary LAX in Lennox,
map.
- $10 for the workshop alone or $20 for both the workshop and the dungeon party that follows.
- LANextGen events are announced on Sanctuary LAX's
events page
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- Le Fleur De Lis Club in Redlands
- Holds workshops weekly as shown on the website's calender.
- Miss Cassie's Rope Munch in Lennox
- 12-2pm every Second Saturday at
Sanctuary LAX. $10 per person.
map
- For more informaton: MissCassieLovesRope (at) gmail (dot) com
- Paddlers of Southern California
(PSC)
- Events held in Riverside.
- A workshop and party often follow their
munches every second Saturday.
- Palm Springs Leather Order of
the Desert
- Every First Wednesday at 7:00PM in Palm Springs
- Primarily Gay Male
- Phoenix Alternative Community - PAC
- Located in the Inland Empire.
- They have two Yahoo Groups:
PhoenixAltCom, and
PhoenixAltCommunity
- This club is undergoing a change in leadership. Their
website has disappeared. Currently there are no
scheduled events. The future of PAC is uncertain.
- Pleasure Chest, The
- This is a retail store on Santa Monica Blvd in Los Angeles selling sex toys and BDSM equipment.
They have several seminars a month on days and times posted on their website
here. On this
page follow the link to the particular workshop to see where it is held. Not all of them may be
held at the Los Angeles store.
- Most of these workshops are free. They can be remotely viewed live, and replayed up to 24 hours
afterwards, using the
Periscope app.
- Sanctuary LAX map
- Has workshops on many subjects many times a month. Schedule is posted
here.
- SoCal
Shibari
- This group is primarily in San Diego but has recently begun having events in Temecula to be more
accessible to people from the LA Area. Temecula is half way between the Inland Empire (greater
LA area) and San Diego along Freeway 15. This is a small group that has its events in private
homes. The emphasis is on education in japanese rope bondage. There are workshops and parties.
- Syren
- In Los Angeles.
- 7:00 PM on the Saturdays 7:30 PM on the Thursdays that are announced on their
website.
- $35 person.
- LA Next Gen
- Every fourth Saturday, 7:00PM to 9:00PM near LAX at
Sanctuary LAX,
map
- The mission of LA Next Gen is to educate the next generation of young people who have newly
entered the scene. But this event is open to adults of all ages
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
- LICK - Ladies In Charge of Kink in Huntington Beach
- Every third Thursday, 6:30pm to 9:00pm.
- There are guest speakers at this event.
- There are protocols to follow. See the website for details.
- Venus at Lair de
Sade in North Hollywood map
- Every third Friday 8:15 PM
- $5 or $30 to also include the Venus dungeon party to follow at 9:00 PM.
Balls
The music played at these events are just as loud as at nightclubs. The same
precautions to protect hearing I give under nightclubs is recommended.
- Bondage Ball 18+
- Held on major holiday weekends such as Independence Day, Labor Day, and Halloween.
- The next event is 9:30pm-3:00 AM, July 3, 2016 at the UNION, 4067 W. Pico Blvd, Los Angeles, CA
90019
- Their events are announced by email. To subscribe visit the
website.
- Fetish Factor
- In Los Angeles, at the
Shrine Auditorium 21+
- Every third Friday, 9:00PM to 3:00PM or later if the party is still going.
- Free admmission before midninght, $20 thereafter.
- No cameras. Strict dress code. Break out your sexiest and most outrageous fetish attire and come
play the wildest fetish party in Los Angeles.
Bed And Bondage Retreats
These are BDSM lifestyle oriented lodgings and resorts that have dungeon setups
Decameron, The
- In the Beverly Hills / West Hollywood area.
- 400 sqft professionally soundproofed space with a 400 sqft private outdoor patio. The patio area
is fully-enclosed and features an outdoor canopy bed.
- Dungeon East, Arts District
in Downtown Los Angeles
- Also known as La Douleur Exquise.
- Dungeon West Los
Angeles Area
- Four poster canopy bed with memory foam mattress� wonderfully comfortable for sleeping; bedside
tables with 3-way lamps and separate iPod/iPhone stereo dock located by bed.
- LA Stay and Play
- In downtown Los Angeles
- Los Angeles Dungeon Rental in Culver City
- Two convertible twin size sleepers, hotel
quality bed linens, comforter, pillows provided
- Sanctuary LAX
- In Lennox near the LAX airport
map.
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
Dungeon Rentals
- Dungeon West Los
Angeles Area
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- Los
Angeles Dungeon Rental in Culver City
- We are the best-equipped luxury dungeon located on the Westside of Los Angeles. Our space offers
1000+ sq. ft. of indoor play space plus a lush outdoor courtyard, and over 300 pieces of
specialty equipment. Los Angeles Dungeon Rental is a unique boutique-style BDSM studio available
for private rentals, events, commercial, and media productions.
- LA Stay and Play
- In downtown Los Angeles
- Sanctuary LAX
- In Lennox near the LAX airport,
map.
-
There is major use of ultraviolet lighting in the main room at Sanctuary, and a small amount
of it in two of the dungeon rooms. (
AMDF article,
Medical
Daily article.).
Lair de Sade
- in North Hollywood
Leather Gatherings and Munches
These are social events where no play takes place. At a munch people gather to have a
snack or dinner together at a restaurant usually in the evening. A picnic is a day long outdoor
event. No BDSM play is allowed at these events because they are in view of the public. Most of them
do not allow fetish attire.
- AVALifestyles in Lancaster
- Every 2nd Saturday 6:00PM
- LA Social 21+
- The first Tuesday of the month 7:00 PM in North Hollywood.
- Karaoke starts at 9:00 PM.
- Le Fleur De Lis Club in Redlands
- Holds socials weekly as shown on the website's calender.
- LICK - Ladies In Charge of Kink in
Huntington Beach
- Every third Thursday, 6:30pm to 9:00pm.
- There are guest speakers at this event.
- There are protocols to follow. See the website for details.
- Long Beach
Kinksters
- Every 4th Wednesday in Stanton.
- 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM
- Los Angeles Brothers In Dominance -
LABID
- A male-oriented support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Dominants in the
greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein
Dominants can discuss any range of topics. The topics should be, but are not limited to,
Lifestyle related issues.
- Los Angeles
Sisters in submission - La_sis
- A female oriented support/social/luncheon group catering to slave/subs and their concerns in the
greater Los Angeles area.
- The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein slave/subs can discuss any
range of topics. The topics should be but are not limited to lifestyle issues.
- This group is for anyone out there who believes and actively lives life as a female slave/sub.
- Los Angeles Leather Coalition Fund
Raisers
- Leather related fund raising events are held from time to time as announced on their
website.
- They will have a screening of the Rocky Horror Picture Show on Friday May 18, 2007 at 8:00PM.
See their website for details.
- Los Angeles Doms and subs, LADs.
- The second Sunday of the month, in the afternoon. Usually around 2pm
- Female dominants and submissives and slaves of all genders (including males, female and TGs) are
accepted. All switches are accepted, but male switches must be submissive at LADs.
- Paddlers of Southern California
(PSC)
- Every Second Saturday 3:00 PM in Riverside.
- This group also has workshops and parties that often follow their munches.
- Pasadena Munch Bunch
Pony and Critter
Jamboree
The last weekend of August in Rosemead.
- Rose Garden San Fernando Valley
Munch
- Every 2nd Tuesday 7:30 PM in North Hollywood
- South Bay
Munch
- Every 2nd Tuesday and 4th Thursday in Torrance
- Southern California Leather Gathering
- A yearly event in late June at
the Whittier Narrows Recreation Area in South El Monte.
- Torrance/South Bay Social
- Held every other week. RSVP to
Nathok@aol.com or
RICHARDLHIGHT@aol.com
- West Coast
Social
- Every second Thursday 8:00pm - 11:00pm at
Lair de Sade in North Hollywood
map 18+
- $5 at the door. RSVP requested but not required. RSVP information is on the
website.
- This is a social gathering.
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Photos
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to the Rubal Khali. This is a massive
desert.
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manner that is most desirable to men.
- Bat Pack Talent
- This is a talent agency specializing in gothic types. Hollywood film producers often look for
extras with a gothic or BDSM fetish look.
- Mishka Fine Art of Fetish
- Looking for still photo models.
Example galleries.
-
The Reality Studio Websites:
- Reality Studio runs websites that seek submissive men to be slaves for their photos and videos.
To apply visit the
Men Are Slaves website. After navigating past
their front page click on the "Be A Slave" link in the row of buttons to the left.
-
- Webcam Modeling
- You can do paid perfomances in the privacy and comfort of your own home from anywhere in the
world that has broadband service:
-
Flea Markets and Vendor Fairs
This is a listing of events oriented towards sales of fetish equipment. Guest
speakers, demonstrations, and shows usually accompany this events.
Brick and Mortar Fetish Shops
These are brick and mortar shops selling BDSM play equipment.
- Crypt, The
- 1712 E. Broadway, Long Beach, (562) 983-6560
- Pleasure Chest, The
- In West Hollywood on Santa Monica near Fairfax
- Heathen Boutique and Firebird Leather
- Near Hollywood and Las Palmas, in Hollywood, (480) 228-6640
- Pleasure Company, The
- In Irvine on Red Hill near Main Street
- Rough Trade
- 3915 Sunset Blvd, Los Angeles, (323) 660-7956
- Mr S Leather and Fetters
- In Hollywood on Melrose near Vermont
- Syren
- In West Hollywood on Beverly Blvd near La Brea
- 665 Leather
- In West Hollywood on Santa Monica Blvd between San Vicente Blvd and La Cienega Blvd
Vanilla Events
Vanilla is a term used to refer to non kinky "normal" people. Although the events
listed here are vanilla events they are listed because they attract kinky people. No or very light
and mild BDSM play takes place at these events.
- Belegarth Medievil Combat
Society at the University of Irvine.
- Buccaneer Days in Two Harbors, Catalina Island
- A four day event Thursday - Sunday on the second weekend of October. General Admiission $30. VIP
$60.
- This is a day when yachtsmen and all others that can make it there by
ferry dress and party as pirates.
- There is a live band and later a DJ at the outdoor dance floor at the Harbor Reef Restaurant. Be
sure to get your passport on arrival or the children might put you in the Hoosegow.
- There are two restaurants in Two Harbors. There is the "Snack Bar" open most of the day. This is
a cafeteria that also grills items to order. The other is the "Harbor Reef Restaurant." This is
fine dining and opens in the late afternoon. The Harbor Reef Restaurant books up quickly for
Buccaneer's Day. It is best to reserve by phone two days in advance of your arrival. If you have
not phoned in advance, reservations can also be done in the Snack Bar before the Harbor Reef
Restaurant opens and should be done there as soon as you arrive.
- The
campsites and
the one hotel at Two Harbors book up one year prior to this event. Booking is best done on the
day of the event for the next year in person at the Two Harbors office. My experience has been
that the Monday after the event is already too late. For those who have arrived without
reservations sometimes there are cancellations or no shows for the campsites. Otherwise there is
overflow camping in Buffalo Park. This is a playground behind the Harbor Reef Restaurant.
- The demand for overflow camping in Buffalo Park for this event has increased dramatically in the
past several years. In 2007 there were just three tents there. In 2009 there were about 200. It
has become like a tent city, and unfortunately, with this growth has come big city crime. The
Two Harbors management was expecting this and beefed up the presence of the Sheriff's Department
and police. In spite of this there were thefts of camping equipment, especially sleeping bags.
Luggage left in or outside tents was riffled through and items such as cameras stolen. In the
case of the sleeping bags the thief was caught when the victims recognized their gear when tents
were being taken down Sunday morning. At about 3 AM there was a disturbance caused by people at
a tent that caused the sheriff to send them home at that hour of the night via the sheriff's
boat.
- To attend this event there is a need for luggage locks on all luggage and zippers on tent doors.
Without these it is certainty thieves will get into both.
- Normally it is possible to rent tents and sleeping bags from the Two Harbors Rangers. In 2009
there was a decision by Two Harbors management not to rent anything on Buccaneer's Day. It is
now necessary to bring your own camping gear to this event.
- It used to be that Buccaneer's Day was mostly attended by well mannered and wealthy yachtsmen.
This has changed. In 2009 a waitress was mugged for her tips by four women in gothic attire
while she was on her way home after the bar closed at 1:30 AM. They were arrested. Sunday
afternoon a woman went berserk in the bar and threw her food all over the place. She was kicked
out. After that she and another woman assaulted a women who was asleep in the grass while
waiting for her ferry. She was straight punched to the face. This was a random act, the
assailants did not know their victim. The two assailants were quickly pulled away by a group of
onlookers. The assailants were banned from the ferry and required to wait for the sheriffs to
arrive who were elsewhere on the island at the time.
- Most of Catalina Island is privately owned by the Santa Catalina Island Conservancy. They
maintain a blacklist of people who have been trouble makers. Anyone on this blacklist is banned
from the island and cannot buy a ferry ticket in their name. There are many who were added to
this list on Buccaneer's Day in 2009.
- Since 2009 security at this this event has been beefed up. The Los Angeles County Sherrif's
presence has been increased. Access to camping areas is controlled, it is necessary to have a
wrist band to get into them.
- Translate your text into Pirate Talk with
this filter.
- How to talk like a pirate web pages:
-
Why talk like a pirate and how
-
How
To Talk Like A Pirate
-
A Pirate's Vocabulary
-
The Brethren of the Coast - History, Sea
Shanties and more.
- Local Pirate Group:
No Quarter Given
- Authentic Pirate Costumes:
Pirate Fashions
- Bellydance
Evolution
- The is a dance troupe that does major productions worldwide. There will be one at the John Anson
Ford Amphitheater in Hollywood, on
Aug 1, 2014. See their
calendar for
other performances elsewhere.
- This troupe has many videos on
YouTube.
- CatalystCon
- The Third Weekend of September. First event is Sept 14-16, 2012 in Long Beach, California.
- CatalystCon is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is
about reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in
their own communities, changing how we as a society talk about and treat sexuality.
- Edwardian Ball
-
The second Saturday of February in Hollywood, California.
THE EDWARDIAN BALL is an elegant and whimsical celebration of art, music, theatre, fashion,
technology, circus, and the beloved creations of the late, great author Edward Gorey. Set in our
own version of �Edwardian� times, this multi-media extravaganza has grown over the past decade
from a small underground club night into an internationally recognized event, now operating with
the blessing of The Edward Gorey Charitable Trust.
- Goddess Temple of
Orange County
- Holds services every Sunday and there are other events during the week. This is a female
dominated religion that believes in a female dominated society, but not necessarily in the
context of BDSM. Nevertheless this religion is potentially of interest to Female Dominants in
the BDSM lifestyle. Before getting involved it is recommended to read the
reviews at
Yelp.
- Renaissance Faire, Santa Fe Dam
Recreational Area, Irwindale.
- All weekend days from the beginning April to mid May.
- Discount coupons and advance tickets are available at the
website.
- There are many other Renaissance Faires throughout the year in Southern California. But this one
is the big one. Many people in the Fetish Community are involved in it as Faire Staff, or
working in the vendor booths, and especially actors up to the highest level. Information about
the other faires, and Renaissance Faires in general, is available
here
- Rocky Horror Picture Shows
-
Sins O' Flesh
-
Midnight Insanity
-
Wild and Untammed Things
- Parties at Gemini Manor in
Hollywood
- Gemini manor is a much trasured party place in Hollywood.
- As of the party on Sept 5, 2015 the party location has moved to the Big Art Church, 4975 Sunset
Blvd, Hollywood, CA, 90027, (Sunset Blvd. & Alexandria Avenue). This is a block an half from the
perty's former location.
- Held regularly 8:00 PM on dates that are announced on its
Facebook
page.
- Well attended by people in the Hollywood Entertainment industry, including musicians who perform
in the sing alongs.
- For email list placement requests: Alexander Lehr (323) 666-7888
geminimanor@earthlink.com
- Sunset Junction Street
Festival
- Every fourth weekend of August.
Conventions and Weekend Events
These are weekend events consisting of workshops in play technique throughout the day
and dungeon parties in the evening. There usually is also an area for vendors to set up. Vendors
from all over the country and even the world will vend at the major ones.
- Bold
- 2 Days the third weekend of February in Burbank.
The third weekend of February.
- Desire in Palm Springs
- Yearly around May or June. A women's only event held in a private resort in Palm Springs. These
weekend has is very much like the OCLA Sampler (OCLA is now disbanded) and was inspired by it at
its start.
- DomCon LA, CA
- Yearly around April or May.
- A weekend of seminars and dungeon parties.
-
This event is organized and managed by
Mistress Cyan
- Dommecraft in the Los Angeles Downtown Arts District
-
DommeCraft offers group classes teaching women How To Dominate in BDSM play with a focus on
Verbal and Psychological skills.
Classes are taught by Simone Justice, an experienced Lifestyle
BDSM Dominant and world-class professional Dominatrix with a Master's
Degree in Psychology who has been teaching powerful skills to Dommes in
private and group classes for over 15 years. Students
range from novice to experienced players, learning skills for personal
to professional play to reach their full potential.
Gain the understanding and experience you need to step into the role of Domme with confidence
and live out your fantasies!
-
Class registration is at
Eventbrite.
- Domestic
Pet, Houseboy, and Sissy Maid Boot Camp
- A one week event, March 23, 2014 at 4:00 PM - Saturday, March 29, 2014 at 8:00 PM
- This event takes place in quarters where a lot of smoking is done. Expect to breath a lot of
third hand smoke residue there.
- Erotic City
- Takes place yearly in early June at
Los Angeles Pride. This is a dungeon set up with
demonstrations as part of Los Angeles Pride. Erotic City's
webpage at Los Angeles Pride.
- $5 to for Friday Night's Carnal Carnival
- $20 Online and $25 at the gate for general admission to Los Angeles Pride and its Erotic City
during the day Saturday and Sunday.
- Equus International Pony Play Event
- The second weekend of August at
Sanctuary LAX in Lennox
map.
- A pony play event.
- Internatioanal Olympus Leather
- A yearly event the first or second weelend of August near the Los Angeles Airport. 3 Days. This
is the event where the "
Mr. & Ms International Olympus Leather Contest " is held.
- LA Leather Weekend
- This is a yearly event the first weekend in April held by the
Los Angeles Leather Coalition.
- LA Leather Pride weekend, featuring a Leather Roller Skating Night, Southland Honors, Workshops,
Mr. LA Leather Contest, and L.A. Streetfest. Contestant Speeches. Held annually the first
weekend in April. Events at various locations.
- Los Angeles Kink Ball
- This event takes place for the first time on President's Weekend Feb 16, 17, 18, 2007. Whether
this will be a yearly event is unknown by me at this time.
- The events take place at various locations in the Hollywood area and near downtown Los Angeles.
- Mistress, Sissy, and Slave Boot Camp.
- The last week of June 14-20, 2015 at the
Den of Iniquity near downtown Los Angeles.
- Links to the event details and sign up are on the
Den of Iniquity's website.
- Please be advised the Den of Iniquity has heavy amounts of
Third
Hand Smoke.
- Palm Springs Leather Weekend
- Once yearly in early November. The dates for 2006 are Nov 9-12.
- Primarily Gay Male
- Leather + Kink + Dance + Vendors + Seminars + BBQ + Pool Party Cruising Hot Men + Skin + Raunchy
+ Sizzling + More Men
- This is a
Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert event.
- Pirate Invasion of Belmont
Pier & Mermaid Festival
- Once yearly the last weekend of June in Long Beach
- See
Buccaneer Days for information about pirates.
- Seaside Swats
- The last weekend in April in Oxnard.
- A weekend spanking party.
- Servant's Retreat
- Held many times during the year in different cities including Los Angeles.
Schedule
- A weekend of "who we are" training for servants/bottoms/slaves/boys/girls
- The location in the Los Angeles area is given to those who register.
Sexual Health Expo
- 2 Days the third weekend of January in Los Anageles, California.
This event is about sexual health, and includes BDSM topics.
- Rope Dojo with Midori
- Cost: $300 for Singles, $500 for Pairs. (No single day tickets available.)
- Limited to 28 people
- The location between Korea Town and downtown Los Angeles is given to those who register.
- Rubber Ball in Arcadia
18+
- Once a yearly on Labor Day. $10 per person.
- A night club event where dress incorporating bondage is in the dress code.
- There has been BDSM play with
Mistress Cyan present at past Rubber Balls. But for
now there cannot be any for as long as it is held at the ABC due to zoning issues. The promotors
are looking for another place to have it. Meanwhile there will be no BDSM play at the Rubber
Ball for as long as it is held at the ABC.
- Stars and Stripes
- Held yearly on the Fourth of July weekend.
- Organized by the
Los Angeles Boys of Leather. Gay Male Only
- West Coast Rubber
Weekend
- Yearly on Labor Day Weekend in Palm Springs
- A weekend dedicated to hot, kinky as hell fetishists from around the globe. Rubber, spandex,
dive gear, bdsm - it's all on for this event. Primarily Gay Male.
Other Sites With LA Fetish Scene Webpages
- Avatar
- Has a newsletter that regularly lists other clubs and events besides their own.
- BDSM_West Yahoo Group
- Has a calendar of events for parties, club meetings, and workshops. This Group is owned by
owners of the
Passive Arts Studio.
- Caryl's BDSM Page
- Lady Badger
- Lady Badger emails a weekly newsletter that lists Southern California events from her Yahoo
SoCalSMEvents group.
- Collar Chat's Upcoming
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